learn about love

 today is 14th February 2021 and young people are celebrating valentine day...

some are missing them first crush, some are missed them one chance to say yes i am with you,some are doing preparation to propose first time,some are doing as a general practice to follow the partner..some divorced people are missing them old days or may be they are waiting for again to trust to someone for love. some are waiting for them real love someone. some are doing time pass with this day.might they think like a festival of love from that they can be fooled someone.

what is real love?

is love really to care someone? passionate about thinking each and every second of our love once? want to spend time with them all life or some time when we want them to do time pass from our routine life or we want physical relationship from our partner? or when we upset then at that time we missed our love once.

each people are living in fake world may be or not...do we believe that now we get pure person or love. some people can be say yes or some people say no....but this answer is depends on our mind when our heart is fulfilled by our own wishes then we think that yes this is life..this is love...

if our partner is doing good behaviour and if he or she cant understands your feelings,demands,needs for time that time you feel that this is not love but at that time did you really understand your partner situation or what is running in mind? or they upset.

so many type of people are surrounding us.

type of people, type of society, type of need, type of  love...what is type? type is mind game of our inner mind..in this time can we really listen our inner voice? we just wake up and doing our routine work.yes some people are follow them time table who want to join some good college, job, businessman,film star people, white collar people,some people who wants to do something in them life yes they follow the rules of life and listen them inner voice...rest are just running towards money to fulfil the requirement of personal life.here i am to write for love but now see now what topic is going on because each time mind is playing games with us. this journey goes here and there and end of time we think ohhh how mess we do in our life as well..reading on status my loved one.. i am nothing without you....etc etc ...at that time we think some time ohh god why i didn't get this type of life partner in our life....? but we never get to know that why god send us here. god gives feeling for love but never think that how beautiful love is.

love is unconditional....never compare your partner with anyone.....

love is really care for feelings for each other. love is making painting with colours in our life. love is to be with partner life time..do you have real love life partner with whom you marriage and you are really happy. love are doing each people with anyone life they love them mother, father,son,daughter, wife and etc etc 

but now we are talking about love and first love come with you...with you means i ..my self i don't know i real love my self or not. we never love our self because we don't have time to listen our voice and we don't want to live for our self and don' want to listen our voice because we are afraid for to do..

some are always worried for society...what our society will think? what our community will say? ohh god...only our first duty to love god and our self then automatic you can do love purely with others who are really want love from you and they really deserve...

whenever i start to think about me...all are thinking she is very selfish..how she is? she have no time for family..

let talk about love please....

who know the real value of love they can feel it. each day we fall in love with everything..love is always want something special from you which you never expect from your partner. i do love with my partner unconditionally because i really think that he is really a man who understand my emotions and my feelings. 

type of love and partners

i know you have discussed about these topic with your friends or someone else or may be you are also thinking same like me.

teenage partners

when you are teenage at that time you think that ohh this boy or girl looks very pretty. she or he nice..at that time we forget to focus on study and going to mind drive for love and what to do for impress her or she. doing propose in that small age yes and no from each other. doing silly type mistakes. talk and not talk. some teenagers also doing mistake and some are really going for long way for life partner. 

how that feeling come in mind when we get our choice life partner and living good life.blessings of family members, good life partner who know you well...good life and no complain to god.

bachelor partners

again bunk the lecture and going for movie, finding place to do romance.. feeling to not red handed by known person. going on bike or in car. each time telling lie to family...again decide to do marriage or going on separate way..yes this is life which we are watching surrounding us. 

arrange love 

this love is really some time good for us may be... in this situation may be those people can give answer who are now journey...we can see our parents. yes they do love and living them life. some are living general because they don't have guts to say no. they do love like a general practice. they do sex as a general work for them family and show that happy weeding couple. in this stage which people are living some time they never arguments with each other and life going as it like some time like examples for society. 

our old generation parents are always thinking good for us. they are never wrong.they do for us best as always. some time if boy or girl are good educated but cast is different then no marriage happen. they have to select one way. if they run away or they do arrange marriage. at that time people are some time not matched with mentality, habits or etc...

do you love some one unconditionally...do you cheated by someone...did you mistake for to select the life partner....do you really never feel that you are living fake life...if no then again you are afraid to do take action for your life. 

when you  someone without any limits, when you never thinking that you do something bad for anything...but when we see some people are doing extra Martial affairs then did we do any study to judge them. 

first we have no any right to judge anybody.

second can we get to know why that he or she did that mistake to go with some one else.

this things happens when our parents never taking care for us which type of partner we want or never stop to early marriage because we some time hear that in our community we have to do marriage early otherwise we will not get good girl or boy.is it so? in this situation when they start live life together and when one by one stage going...show off to others or to show off in community that 

yes everything is ok between us............................................

why married couple are trying to find love outside? if they are doing same and when we reading in news or seeing in society then why we are not thinking who is responsible for this . i am not saying that his wife or her husband or them parents who select partners. 

if god give us chance to two minutes then what you will change in your life.so many thoughts are going in your mind....yes of course.. so many comments will come..

again if you are doing unconditional love to someone and if that people never understand your pure love then which type of feelings come in your mind when you are with him or her either you are alone. 

in this situation when your partner is with you when they do some foolish thing to see smile on your face you think that you are one of the lucky person at that moment. when talk to much with each other with specific subject or nonsense subject, again you feel that this type conversation nobody can do it.when your partner so much romantic with you and making good love atmosphere and doing sex with you.... at that time you feel oh my partner loves me so much this type of romantic things can't happen with anyone. i am so lucky person. and after a sudden minutes when your partner using abusing word on you for your small mistake. 

what you feel ? what will be your reaction? if you ignore mistake and never give him feeling that you are not ok with this. and again same cycles done in your life what will happen in your heart and mind. this type people never answer back and never said them partner that , he or she not right. may be they are very good predictor for upcoming life situation.they again doing love to them partner and never complain for this misdeed. and you cant believe that in this situation mostly educated people always suffering in this situation.

might they think each time think positive one day come good 

or they want real love 

or they always think that might be my partner not doing intentionally

or they are coming on that stage to be habitual from mind and ignore each time.

when some educated people reading and very practical person will answer that i will leave the partner.

when secret love going in that situation, if one side person is open up to the family and friends and second side if person cant speak up single thing and can not speak about the relation.....

in this type condition which people are living they only know how condition happens...

some silly type things when you want to do you cant do it. 

you cant say that he or she will be your life partner 

if you are social active people you cant upload photos, you cant share your location and you cant say that you are here or anything..i know this is not necessary but when they are always ready to follow the rules for this then why your partner always going down to do mistakes. 

when one married man love single lady then what condition happen?

yes all people will say why married man select by lady?

that lady knows then she has to do bear because she doesn't have to do like this or she is bad lady because that lady is breaking the society rules. 

but why we not thinking why that man comes to her? again may be arrange marriage or early marriage.not given time to understand the partner and did marriage after pressure. or want to live community life. don't judge please anyone because this is love dear. 

love is that emotion when heart says yes at the same time your mind will say no.......

when you can see your partner is lie to you and you never complain. when you prepare everything for them and no single response from them. or they never seen your efforts how you do it? 

when middle class person... saving money for gift since long time saving money.......at that periods may be he or she delete some them needs..when really needed some things but they give priority to save money and when you going to purchase gift for he or she that time you think so many things like your like dislike comfort so many things when they think and select one thing for you and at that time your partner not giving good response and getting gift thanks and formality completed when your partner place your gift one side or not taking care at that time what feelings come to your mind and still you love unconditionally. 

so many types of people and love surrounding us but we think that one day surly come to us when we get good response we melting to them. this melting in emotions is love. we listen romantic songs,doing good things but we forget our self. we forget to do things for our self. when you do love without limits then you must have to be prepare for tears and insult. after so long time you can realise that so many good opportunity was with you but you select love only so you are here...

love is always be love...its a giant subject to write about because those people can write who deed really deep love to them partner. 

when you get insult, abuse words and ignorance you feel to again say sorry to your partner to think that i don't want to stop this relation because i can not live without him or her. 

 you will never listen your mind...because his or her simple smile and simple few minute talk give you happiness.

we always read that never think to much and never expect anything from anyone it will hurt you badly but we always much positive in love so we insulted each and every second. 

Jesus said to do love.. but he suppose to forget say that if your partner not doing love then i will give you one prayer read it you will forget love instant..

on 16th feb 2021

I went to the office on time and listen instrumental songs and think that is this work which my boss given to me...noooo i have to do so many pending work as well have to set my goals which is very urgent but my heart is thinking so many things. i thought that why i do this thing and i am getting good handsome salary then why i am not taking it seriously because of my partner who is not talking with me properly and he is not thinking single point for me.

let me start new work with energy. i will be back.